Being Human!

     

     We are Human Beings, scientifically known as Homo-Sapiens. But I guess most of us have forgotten the meaning of Being Human. The inhuman behavior that we hear these days, have shocked the entire human race.

     One can see some glimpses of humanity these days in case he/she is lucky. Once I noticed people stuck in traffic jam (common these days) making way for an ambulance to go. I was really moved by such gesture of those people and I said proudly to myself - “After all, we still are Human Beings”. But when I posted this in one of the social websites, one of my friends who mostly is a part of such traffic jams commented I was lucky enough to witness something of that sort, as people rarely do something like that.

     The recent Delhi-gang Rape case has proved to a major extent the lack of humanity in human beings these days. I trembled with pain and anger, both at the same time when I read about the incident. I am not sure if it was my right to do so, but I prayed to God to put an end to the girls suffering. The sufferings came to an end for the girl on 29th December, but what a loss to her family. No punishment in the world would be enough to get her back.

     Our world did not come to an end as it was predicted, but 16th of December 2012, marked the end of HUMANITY!

I feel very sad as I type this, but still somewhere deep in my heart I visualize the World as a safe place to live in and hope for a better tomorrow.

Has Life Changed?

     New Year and New Life! It is going good, in fact great! I am happily married now. But has life changed?

     Life is Beautiful! It shows you all beautiful colors. The changes that I feel after getting married is all positive. Like I am being loved a hundred times more than what I was used to and it keeps increasing each single day. I am so madly and deeply in love with this person that I believe he is the person God choose for me. This great feeling of being married does not seem to come to end ever.

     Life, at times shows few bad colors as well, but that does not mean we forget the good times. I don’t see much of a negative change other than one which is my friend circle. It has reduced to a large extent. That off-course is not only because I got married, but they(my friends) got married too. All busy with their married life. I have stopped talking to my friends except few who really put an effort to be in touch. They call me, message me and I call them back, reply them. The question is what about others? Why are they not around? Some of them were with me in my real bad times and now when I am happy and want to share the happiness with them why aren't they around to smile with me?

     No answers! All I could think of is the phrase – “People come to your life for a reason, a season or for a lifetime.” So may be their part in my life is over and when they have a reason or it’s the perfect season they would be back. I am not losing hope.

    

Cheers to Life! J

Love is Blind!

Ever heard of the phrase “Love is Blind”? I am sure you have. But we … Experienced It!

Well, if there is something called “Destiny”, I am a strong believer of it. What else will you call this?

A Bengali girl, never willing for a love marriage finally ends up marrying a South Indian … that too a Tamilian (No offense intended).

A Tamil guy, who never took love seriously and the phrase “Love Marriage” did not hold any significance in his life, finally fell for a Bengali girl.

Who will believe all this? But all of this actually happened when this guy, went on his knees and said, “I promise to love you every moment of forever, would you do me the extraordinary honour of marrying me!” .. the reply came instantly -  “Twilight!”.  :D

But eventually, it was a “YES”!

What Money Cant Buy - Happiness!

    There are somethings, Money can't buy! So true!
   
    The thought crossed my mind as I was thinking of some happiness I couldn't get in my life. There are many actually, ... but never felt so sad of them, ... may be, never got a chance to wait and think of them, ... or may be, never bothered to think of them.


    Have you ever come across such feeling, when you want something in your life and realized that its no way coming to you? One may say that nothing is impossible to achieve. Yes! Definitely, I agree, that's true. With hard work and dedication everything can be achieved, but still I guess there are somethings we really can't do anything about.


    Ever noticed ... the joy in the eyes of a school kid after getting an 'excellent' remark for his assignment. Try buying it for your own kid, can you? ... The Pride in the eyes of one's parents when one excels in academics/sports. Have you noticed how proudly they announce it to their neighbors/relatives. Try buying it for your parents, can you? ... The happiness in the eyes of a bride whose big fat wedding is attended by all dear and near ones (especially her parents). Try buying it for your girlfriend whose parents are against your relationship, can you?


    There are lot of such questions that may arise in your mind for which the answer would be a helpless "No". But, ... you know what, ... the answer to such questions can be given in three simple words too - "Let It Be". Really, let it be! If you are helpless under certain circumstances, let it be. Work on others, under which you can do wonders. And I am sure there will be a plenty of them.


    I believe its Steven Covey, who said there are two situations in your life. One you can control, another you can't. A person should spend time, thinking of the situations he can control, but unfortunately most people spend their time thinking of what they can't. 

    Well, I am not an exception. I too tend to think and act in the same way. But don't be too late to realize that there are many other happiness waiting for you to knock the doors. For the happiness that's not coming your way, that you can't buy - Let it be! ... And hey! ...  not to forget, for everything else, there's MasterCard!  Go get it. :D

    Whats your idea of Happiness? Do share your moments of happiness too ... remember happiness multiplies when shared. Spread that smile! :)